Your Character is
The Perfectionist
You’re constantly chasing flawless results—and setting the bar so high it becomes paralysing. You hold yourself to impossible standards, rarely celebrating progress because it’s never 'good enough.'
You probably delay starting things until they’re perfect or overwork to hide your self-doubt.
Reframe: Progress > perfection. Good enough is often great.
Coachere Challenge: Start something you’ve been putting off and let version one be your proud beginning, not your reason to wait. Confidence doesn’t come from getting it right—it comes from getting started.
Ready to let go of perfect? → Take the Creating Confidence course or buy the book *Conditioning Kills Confidence* to unlearn perfectionism and embrace progress.
Your Character is
The Professor
You believe that knowledge = worth. If you don’t know everything, you don’t feel confident showing up. You likely over-analyse, retreat into research, or freeze if you don’t have all the answers.
Reframe: Intelligence comes in many forms. Lived experience matters too.
Coachere Challenge: Share something before you feel 'ready.' Let go of overthinking and step into doing. Remember—confidence grows through experience, not evidence.
Need help shifting from knowing to doing? → Discover your strengths and self-belief inside the Creating Confidence course or explore the book for deeper insight.
Your Character is
The Protector
You play it safe. You’re on constant lookout for what could go wrong—and it keeps you stuck. You overthink risks, avoid trying new things, and may carry anxiety from others’ past warnings or fears.
Reframe: Most fears are just thoughts. And thoughts aren’t facts.
Coachere Challenge: Do one small thing this week that scares you. Whether it’s saying yes to an opportunity or speaking up in a meeting, bravery is built in action, not avoidance.
Want help moving from fear to freedom? → Step into the unknown with the Creating Confidence course or read *Conditioning Kills Confidence* to start building resilience today.
Your Character is
The Comparer
You measure your success against everyone else’s highlight reel—and it’s exhausting. Whether it’s your job, your body, or your Instagram feed, you’re constantly sizing yourself up.
Reframe: The only comparison worth making is with who you were yesterday.
Coachere Challenge: Turn comparison into inspiration. Write down five things you’re proud of and five qualities that make you uniquely you. Focus on your lane—and celebrate every inch of progress.
Need help embracing your uniqueness? → Explore your superpowers in the Creating Confidence course or dive deeper through the book *Conditioning Kills Confidence*.
Your Character is
The Critic
Your inner voice is loud, harsh, and rarely satisfied—especially with yourself. You replay your mistakes, correct others often, and hold strong opinions on the 'right' way.
Reframe: There are many roads to the same destination.
Coachere Challenge: Practice pausing before judging—yourself or others. Ask: 'Is this helpful or hurtful?' Trade criticism for curiosity and give yourself the grace you’d give someone you love.
Want help quieting your inner critic? → Learn how to rewire your thoughts and lead with compassion in the Creating Confidence course or *Conditioning Kills Confidence*.
Your Character is
The Victim
You’ve internalised the belief that things just don’t go your way—and that’s become your story. You find reasons why things won’t work out, blame others or circumstances, and feel like you’ve already failed before you begin.
Reframe: You’re not powerless. You just need a new narrative.
Coachere Challenge: Identify one area where you *do* have control—and act on it today. Shift from 'why me?' to 'what now?' and take back your power, one small choice at a time.
Ready to move from stuck to strong? Reclaim your story through the Creating Confidence course or the book *Conditioning Kills Confidence*.
